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Retreat · June 12–14

The Enneagram of Masculinity

Not a personality test. A map of where your life is breaking and what moves it forward.

Most men are not stuck from lack of effort. They are stuck in a cycle they cannot see.

This retreat is designed to slow everything down so you can actually observe that cycle in yourself.

We will break down the nine-point process of desire, truth, sacrifice, and pressure — and use it as a lens to understand your life, your relationships, and your work. Not conceptually, but through direct experience.

Friday

We begin together — grounding into the work, sharing, and setting the tone. God willing, around a fire.

Saturday

The core of the retreat. You will spend the day alone, in silence, and fasting. No distractions. No performance. Just you, observing yourself. This is where the pattern begins to reveal itself. Saturday night we come back together and sit with music, letting the experience settle without forcing meaning.

Sunday

We reflect, integrate, and bring language to what was seen — so you leave not just with an experience, but with clarity and direction.

You will leave knowing

  • What's actually happening in your life
  • Where your process is breaking
  • The next move required to move forward

This is not about becoming someone else.

It is about seeing clearly, and stepping back into alignment with what is already true.

The Process

9

GOD

the origin of impulse, where desire and a new cycle begin

1

DESIRE

what you actually want, the energy that gives life direction

2

INTEGRITY

where desire is tested against truth or self deception

3

SACRIFICE

what must be given up for truth to become real

4

ACCOUNTABILITY

where truth becomes visible through action and consequence

5

STRUCTURE

systems and patterns that make action repeatable

6

THE TEST

where pressure reveals whether what you built actually holds

7

STABILITY

what remains consistent over time after being tested

8

SAFETY

the ability to stay grounded without tension or collapse